Written on: Thursday October 23, 2008
It’s been a long long time my friends. I missed you guys :’(.
Anyways I haven’t gone out too much recently, but I DID go out on Monday, with my wingman, and choded out.
Before we hit the Promenade Mall, we stopped by at my house, I dropped off my bag, and left. By the time we had caught the bus, it was already 4:00 (we have to leave at 6).
And guess what else; when we got there, it was 5. But hold on, that’s not all. First we stopped to eat, and you know that takes time :)
It was getting time to leave, and I saw a two-set at the food-court. Major AA (you know what it’s like on that first approach). We sat down and discussed our plan of attack. I wanted to go direct; but my wingman wanted me to whip out my holy-grail of pickup lines. I refused saying it was only meant for really hot girls & emergencies (it works like every time). Also, part of the reason why is because I’m going for more of a natural game. What I’ve noticed is that every time a girl shocks me, I chode out and start acting well, chody again. I realized that although I’m picking up chicks, I haven’t changed one bit. So no more pickup lines from me (unless I came up with them). I wanted to go direct. We’re about to go, and then I stop because I’m nervous. Then when we look back, one of them is on the phone. So we sit down, and right when she gets off, she starts talking to some guy she knows at the food-court. Life sucks. That’s why I hate sarging in sub-urban malls. It’s the pickup artist’s ghetto I tell you.
So we left. But that was Monday.
I failed to mention that I also sarged again on Wednesday. My wingman couldn’t join me so I went out alone. I decided to hit Hillcrest Mall (again) since I was alone, because Promenade was too big and there was always the possibility I could run into someone I know. I got there at around 5-ish and I noticed I’m letting sets just pass me by. I go to the washroom, collect myself, and then step outside again. But, this time I’m on my cellphone trying to get a hold of my wing to get me in a talkative mood.
Now brace yourselves, because here’s the genius part:
When I can’t get him, I stay on my phone, PRETENDING I’m on it :D. I see a nice HOT two-set open them with my cell in one hand. After a while, I start talking on it again and say “Alright buddy I’m going to have to let you go, you’re costing me money.”
Now of course after that I was too overwhelmed from not sarging in a while that I realize I didn’t have anything to say, so I patted one of them on the shoulder and kept on walking.
This is a tiny mall. Its only one strip. I’m walking back and forth and keep on seeing the same three-set of 2 guys and a girl. One of them had a Mohawk. As I was walking by them for the 10th time, Mohawkman says “Look at the fag walking again.”
Obviously I was pissed off but I strongly believe in walking away. I do a bit of kickboxing and I’m pretty fit, so I’m confident I could take most people. But I’m a lover, not a fighter :).
I remember seeing a two-set at the food court talking to each other. I was done for the night and had to leave to make it to my hockey practice. I’m thinking of opening them with “OMG I’ve been walking around the mall all day looking for cute girls to talk to, but this mall is so tiny. I can’t believe I finally found some.”
As I’m creeping my way over to the food-court, I spot another 2set exiting a store. One of them was looking back at me, we made eye-contact, then she turned, looked back again, and started talking to her friend. I, being the opportunist that I am started speeding up my walk, got in front of them, and approached.
I said “Hey why were you guys checking me out back there?” They smiled and said that I looked like someone they knew. I replied with “Let me take a wild guess, your dreams?” and I started walking backwards in front of them and talking. I realized I was giving them the value, so I stopped, and they stopped :). I had passed the hook point long ago.
So we talked for maybe 30 seconds, I showed them my boxers, and then I whipped out that line I was going to use on the other 2set that was no longer there. They were like “Well you found some right here,” smiled, and looked like the most adorable bisexuals ever. We would’ve made a hot threesome. After that I say “okay well I have to go right now but here, put your NUMBERS (notice the plural) in my phone.” Handed them my cell and they took their turns putting it in. I say “okay well hugs all around” (quote to JLarge I think) and I hugged both girls simultaneously. I look over one girl’s shoulder, and see the guy with the Mohawk eating with his sausage-infested set staring at me. I shot him a grin, and walked away.
TO BE CONTINUED….
Let’s break it off here. Let’s not talk about Monday, nothing more said. Let’s talk about last night when my game grew.
After not sarging in so long, I forgot what it feels like to get passed that first set. I don’t know about you, but now when I go out I only get AA when approaching the very first viable set. After that I’m Golden. Now that I remember what it’s like, I won’t waste time anymore time.
I really like the direct opener. Back in the day, when I started out, I never liked direct or opinion. My first opinion opener that I ever used (which is my holy-grail of pickup lines) went EXCELLENT. They were rambling on and on and on. Of course I was too chode to transition (still am). Now I did my first somewhat direct opener, and it just cut through all the crap. It like sliced right through it.
I enjoyed incorporating the cell phone in that first set. It didn’t go well but I feel like that’s definitely something I could work with. Next time I’ll say “Okay sexy you’re eating up my minutes I’ll talk to you later.” Or something similar. I really want to experiment with this.
It’s amazing how my voice tenses up after an abstinence of speaking. When approaching that 2set I had terrible posture AND a weak voice. I think that’s a huge part of why they weren’t as invested in me as I had been in them. I don’t know if it was because I was exhausted, cold, hungry, and lonely; or if I was just being a chode. But it doesn’t matter because it sure as hell won’t be happening again anytime soon.
Also I mentioned in one of my previous posts how I approached a girl from behind, she was scared shitless and told me to talk to someone else. Ya I fixed that problem long ago by walking in front and then turning over the shoulder. I opened a 3set of ugly-but-trying-to-look-hot girls in such. I was talking to them over the shoulder the whole time. Now I have to find a way to get them walking with me or similar. I learnt that you could go either two ways with that: 1 is walk backwards and face them, then once you feel comfortable stop and see what happens OR 2 you can say “why are you guys so far back? Move up a bit” and this leads them from there. I’m going to try one of those 2 things for next time (whichever I find would work best in the situation).
I also learnt that if she challenges you, you challenge her. For example with that 3set I opened I asked them if cute guys normally talk to them. One of them said “yeah all the time.” And then something something but she asked me why I’m not walking with anyone. Instead of choding out, I could have said “Where’s your army of cute guys that always talk to you?” It’s so easy, just like that.
It’s so easy finding new techniques and fixing what you did wrong. You can only learn so much from every time you go out. Honestly, I am surprised there wasn’t a Mystery sooner. All it takes is going out, talking to girls, see where you could improve, and then try it out for next time. All Mystery did was give it all fancy names. But I still love him because he and all these other guys speed up the process so much :).
Anyways, tomorrow is a PA Day. My wingman’s coming out. You know some shit’s going down bro.
Now back to my other story:
I being my strut away from the hot babes. Tired, cold, hungry, and alone, yet that core essence resides deep inside me, and despite my physical condition, it keeps me shining brighter than any star in the galaxy. I see the door, I see the light. The sun. I let it shine through the glass pane of the exits, – exits?- shining upon me, giving my body heat and a brand new sense of self. I see it; and I’m going in. I’m walking into the light, towards the light, into the abyss. I’m going, I’m going. A new world, a new beginning, and a new life lie beyond those doors. I have only heard about it and up until now I could only imagine what it would feel like in my wildest dreams. Now all it takes is a step. One giant leap from this world to the next. The light is so unknown, but feels so friendly. No more procrastinating, there is no time to savour such allure. Only time to absorb the grace and move on. I couldn’t be happier that my marveling must come to an end. I walk in. I step forward. I have entered the Nimbus.
Until next time my friends keep on sarging,
Pairo
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